Freaky versus Kinky, Which are you?

Well I'm just going to call today Fetish Friday. Last night I was talking with my boyfriend, I hate that word by the way. It may work for teens, but really I prefer man, or anything else but boyfriend. Not fiancee, cause its not on that level. I was asking him what he thought the difference between Freaky and Kinky was.

He didn't know. I came up with Freaky is generally a term to describe a look, or behavior. and the dictionary says, "weird, strange,". There are so many people out there that fit this category. It's okay. I fit that description. However, urban dictionary says, "kinky, acts in a sexual manner, engages in odd sexual behavior.

Urban dictionary even gives examples: anal, 3 somes, body chocolate licking, toe sucking"..
Thank you Urban for making things so clear. As far as that I don't fit that description. So I plugged in Kinky at regular dictionary, and number 3 definition gave me," marked by unconventional sexual preferences or behavior, as fetishism, sadomasochism, or the like.   Okay, once again I fit that description.

Now that all that dictionary stuff is out the way. The point is this: "At some point in your life something is going to happen to give you a wake up call about your sexuality." Embrace what it is, Go against the grain. Get a little Kinky, act a little Freaky. Its you and what you want. So then I started to wonder about Nipple rings, nipple chains, and the like. How much Pleasurable Pain can I stand, not wondering why can I stand it or why I want to do it.  My boyfriend was all for it. Which I adore him for.

I spent a good hour last night drooling over these chains. and the clamps, not the bulbs, cause I didn't understand that. Unless you are into lactation, then they might help. That's just another fetish that is out there. A "like". So as far as the true difference between Freaky and Kinky, nothing it's just a state of mind you are in for the moment. and even though I am not an expert on this kind of ORGAMIC play, it doesn't stop me from wanting to participate in the life style so Fetish Fridays are official.