1.I would rather always be on top than always be on bottom.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
2.Sometimes I like to say things that may make my partner uncomfortable.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
3.I like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused by me during sex.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
4.Being bound makes me feel safe.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
5.I want to be forced to watch my lover with someone else.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
6.It is fun to be forced to do things that I don't necessarily like to do.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
7.The idea of being bound is arousing.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
8.Discussion of interests between my partner and I is important.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
9.I like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
10.I enjoy the idea that my partner wants to inflict pain on me.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
11.I enjoy serving my partner and have a need to please them.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
12.I like the idea of my partner being physically helpless during sex.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
13.Sex is only appropriate when you love someone.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
14.I am into pornography.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
15.I like being threatened with pain.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
16.I would like to explore my partner's sexual curiosities.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
17.After sex, I enjoy seeing the evidence of the pain I experienced during sex.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
18.I like being powerful in bed.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
19.I have no interest in exploring sexuality, I'm satisfied with where I am at.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
20.I want to be worshiped.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
21.I like being in pain.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
22.It is enjoyable to say dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things to my partner.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
23.It would be great to order someone around in the bedroom.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
24.My role depends on the dynamic with my partner.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
25.I would like to tie up my partner.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
26.I want to be ordered around.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
27.People that engage in BDSM practices are weird.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
28.I find both dominant and submissive roles exciting.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
29.Inflicting pain on myself is sexually stimulating sometimes.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
30.I enjoy name calling in the bedroom.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
31.It is arousing to have someone inflict pain on me.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
32.Sexual situations in which I am restrained are exciting.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
33.I would like to include other people in my sexual experiences outside of my partner and I.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
34.I don't practice any sort of fetishism (to my knowledge).
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
35.Sexuality is primarily emotional expression.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
36.Toys and other things take away from sex between my partner and I.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
37.My partner's satisfaction is more important to me than my own.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
38.I enjoy wearing restrictive clothing.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
39.I want to be in control in the bedroom.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
40.I would love to have a lack of physical control in a sexual setting.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
41.I want to watch people have sex.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
42.Sexuality should be explored.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
43.I want to explore a fantasy but I never seem to have the opportunity.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
44.I view my sexual partners as sex objects sometimes.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
45.It is exciting to feel ashamed by my sexuality.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
46.It would be interesting to try things that are out of my normal sexual range.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
47.I have fantasies that unsettle me.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
48.My own gratification is more important than my partner's.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
49.I like inflicting pain on people physically in a sexual setting.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
50.I wish that I could force my partner to do what I wanted.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
51.Interested in finding out what's out there.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
52.I would rather have an opportunity to change roles than have a set role in the bedroom.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
53.I like not having any control in the bedroom.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
54.I don't like making decisions sexually; I just like to go with what my partner wants.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
55.I would love to film my sexual encounters.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
56.I like someone that will talk dirty to me to an extreme that can make me uncomfortable.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
57.The idea of sexual torture is appealing.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
58.It is nice to have control over the pain which is inflicted on me.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
59.It is enjoyable to hurt my partner.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
60.Mutual gratification is important to me.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
61.I want people to watch me have sex.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
62.A sense of worthlessness is exciting to me.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
63.I like the idea of being both dominant and submissive at different times.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
64.I want to sexually worship my partner.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
65.It is arousing to be put in humiliating positions or situations.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
66.I am willing to try anything once
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
67.Mutual exploration between partners is important to me.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
68.It would be fun to have sex more publicly.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
69.I've always wanted to streak, flash someone, or have sex in front of people.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
70.I don't like experimenting with sexual positions.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree